Offering compassion for others can be a self kindness practice, particularly when the farm is mere of an annoyance. When it comes from self-compassion it can strengthen connection while in other cases it can support firm boundaries without resentment or ill will.
"It's Not Our Fault" is a talk Lev created specifically for the QTPOC community inspired my Tara Brach's "It's Not My Fault" talk that explains that we are doing our best in our reactions to the world we live in.